Successful Mealtimes
Gathering everyone around the dinner table at the same time is
no easy feat, so each person will need to schedule their other activities
accordingly.
- Be prepared. If children get hungry before all family members
are home, plan a healthy snack well before the meal, or feed
them part of the evenings meal (salad or fruit) early. Then
at mealtime, everyone still gathers around the table to enjoy.
- Make it a priority. Pick one night a week that everyone agrees
to be home on time for a meal. A parent may need to commit to
leaving for work early that one day and children might need
to decline any invitations. After you have adjusted to eating
together, you will learn how to schedule activities and mealtimes
so that everyone is eating together at the same time.
- Make it a breakfast or lunch date
- Make it Memorable: Eat the meal backwards. Wear your shirt
backwards, sit in the chair backwards. Set the table with the
fork on the right, knife and spoon on the left. Eat dessert
first, followed by the main meal, then a salad. Eat with the
opposite hand. OR start the day with a typical evening meal
like hamburgers or pasta, and end the day with "breakfast".
Eat in the dining room with a special tablecloth, the nice china,
and lots of candles.
Please TELL US how your family has successful mealtimes so we can share it with others.
The
Family That Eats Together 5 rules for success
No TV
No Phone Calls
Don’t Lecture or Fuss
Don’t become the Manners Police
Make sure everyone pitches in
The
New Family Dinner: Different Ways to Come Together (Parents
magazine)
Dinner
With Dad
TV
and the Family Table
Low
Stress Meals
How
to Carve Out Family Dinners
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